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Have you ever left a hangout with a friend feeling worse than when you arrived?

Do you find yourself second-guessing their comments, questioning your value, or feeling drained after spending time together?

These might not just be passing feelings, they could be red flags.

Recognizing these red flags can help you protect your energy and choose healthier relationships.

If you recognize any of these signs and need help creating distance from someone in your life, I’ve created a guide for you:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/fake-friends/

In this video:
00:09 #1 They never ask you questions
00:21 #2 They brag
00:36 #3 They always play victim
00:48 #4 They are always in conflict
01:13 #5 They say yes, and then cancel on you
01:31 #6 They treat other people badly
01:49 #7 Do you like being with this person?
02:09 We can smell fear and tension!

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Hi, I’m Vanessa!

You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).

My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted, or forgotten again.

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