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Second dates are all about building connection and deepening your first impression. Ask these questions to get to know your date better!

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In this video:
00:06 Here is your goal for a second date
00:12 The 3 levels of connection
00:28 Skip boring questions!
00:51 What's your big goal this year?
00:52 What excites you most in life right now?
00:54 Are you learning anything right now?
00:55 Do you have a bucket list?
00:57 If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?
01:00 How to prepare for a third date
01:05 Level 3: Self-Narrative
01:13 Questions to ask to get to level 3
01:16 What is something most people don't know about you?
01:18 Who is your role model?
01:19 How do you feel most misunderstood?
01:21 How can I better understand you?
01:24 Is there an area of your life you wish you had more support?
01:26 What forces shaped your personality?
01:28 Are you closer with your mom or dad?
01:37 Join People School to learn more!

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