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There is a psychological reason why the men who scream loudest about homosexuality keep getting caught in airport bathrooms.

It is not hypocrisy. It is not weakness. It is not irony.

It is a documented psychological phenomenon that has been studied, named, and published in peer reviewed journals. And once you understand it you will never watch a homophobic politician give a speech the same way again.

THE PATTERN IS IMPOSSIBLE TO IGNORE

Ted Haggard. Evangelical pastor. Preached homosexuality was a sin for years. Was paying a male escort for sex the entire time.

George Rekers. Co-founder of the Family Research Council. One of the most prominent anti-gay activists in American history. Was caught returning from a European vacation with a male escort he hired from a website called Rentboy.com.

Larry Craig. United States Senator. Voted against every piece of gay rights legislation he ever encountered. Was arrested in an airport bathroom in Minneapolis for soliciting sex from an undercover male police officer.

Josh Duggar. Anti-gay activist. Family values defender. Was caught accessing Ashley Madison, a website designed for extramarital affairs, and was later convicted of downloading child sexual abuse material.

The list goes on. And on. And on.

This is not a coincidence. This is a pattern. And psychology has had an explanation for it for nearly a century.

THE BRAIN BURIES WHAT IT CANNOT FACE

In 1936 psychoanalyst Anna Freud identified a defense mechanism that explains everything about these men.

She called it reaction formation.

When the brain encounters an impulse it finds threatening or shameful it does not suppress it. It converts it into the exact opposite behavior. And then performs that opposite behavior loudly, publicly, and aggressively.

The more unbearable the internal conflict the more extreme the outward performance.

Ted Haggard did not preach against homosexuality because he believed it was wrong. He preached against it because his brain needed the performance to survive. Every sermon was a wall he was building between himself and what he could not face.

Reaction formation does not make the impulse disappear. It makes it louder. It just points it outward instead of inward.

The crusade is not about you. It has never been about you. It is about them.

THE SCIENCE IS NOT SUBTLE

In 1996 researchers Henry Adams, Lester Wright, and Bethany Lohr at the University of Georgia conducted a peer reviewed study that should have ended this conversation permanently.

They measured the physical arousal of self-identified heterosexual men while exposing them to gay male content.

The results were extraordinary.

54 percent of men who scored highest on the homophobia scale showed definite physical arousal. Only 24 percent of non-homophobic men did the same.

And when asked afterward to report their own arousal the homophobic men significantly underestimated what their own bodies had just recorded.

They were not lying to the researchers. They were lying to themselves.

The most homophobic men in the room are the most aroused by gay men in the room. That is not a political talking point. That is a published peer reviewed finding from a university laboratory conducted under controlled conditions.

The louder the objection the closer the mirror.

THE PUBLIC PERFORMANCE GIVES THEM PERMISSION

Watch how these men build their public identities.

Church leader. Family values defender. Anti-gay activist. Author of books about the sanctity of marriage.

That is not their biography. That is a cover story.

In 2001 psychologists Benoit Monin and Dale Miller at Stanford University identified a mechanism they called moral credentialing. When people build a public record of moral behav