Episode Details

Her first salary was bigger than his after six years of work. Most men would feel threatened. But PG Sebastian made a decision that saved his marriage and built his wealth.

In this raw, deeply personal episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with PG Sebastian, relationship coach, certified family counselor, published author, and corporate professional with over 2,700 clients under his belt, for a conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about provision, ego, and what it really takes to survive a long distance marriage.

PG opens up about the trade-offs he had to make when his wife earned more than him from day one, the 30 days apart and 12 days together routine that tested their covenant, raising three kids alone while his wife worked miles away, and the one statement his wife made in the kitchen that changed his entire approach to marriage. This isn't theory. This is a counselor who lived what he preaches, and the results speak for themselves: two houses by age 40, a thriving family, and a marriage that gets stronger every year.

If you're in a long distance relationship, struggling with ego, or wondering whether provision is really just the man's job, this conversation will give you a roadmap you won't find anywhere else.

Chapters

• 00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting PG Sebastian - Counselor, Author, and Corporate Professional
• 00:01:00 Her First Salary Was Bigger Than Mine After Six Years
• 00:03:45 The Business Decision: Choosing Long Distance Marriage
• 00:09:39 Killing Ego Before It Kills Your Marriage
• 00:11:32 Why Men Force Women to Quit Their Careers
• 00:12:15 The Morning Glory Problem: Surviving Physical Distance
• 00:13:48 Everything Is Possible When You Make Up Your Mind
• 00:17:10 The Day She Got the Job: Timing and Divine Intervention
• 00:18:15 Being the Head Without Being the Provider
• 00:21:19 When Your Income Catches Up: The Reversal
• 00:28:08 The Solo Father: Eight Months Alone With the Kids
• 00:29:00 If Your Wife Was Dead, You Would Do It
• 00:38:42 Two Houses By 40: The Payoff of Sacrifice
• 00:39:36 Communication: The Real Foundation of Long Distance
• 00:51:03 You Are My Only Friend: When Your Spouse Is Your Best Friend
• 00:55:15 Learning to Love Her: The Daily Journey
• 00:55:55 The Comment That Changed Everything
• 00:56:42 If Nobody Is Dying, Let It Slide
• 01:02:52 Final Thoughts: The 20 Percent That Gives 80 Percent Value

Guest: PG Sebastian

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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.

IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, mo