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Where Have All the Tops Gone? The Truth About Gay Sex’s Biggest “Shortage EP 789
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In this episode:
• Is the “top shortage” supported by real data?
• Why are younger gay men more likely to identify as bottoms?
• Do some men grow into topping as they gain confidence and experience?
• Are there no tops—or simply no tops who meet every requirement?
• The erection and performance pressure placed on tops
• Why topping a partner can feel easier than topping a stranger
• Porn, hookup apps, masculinity, and unrealistic sexual expectations
• Can a soft top still deliver a great sexual experience?
• Are top, bottom, and vers preferences—or identities?
• Why expanding our definition of sex may benefit everyone
So, where have all the tops gone?
Maybe they haven’t gone anywhere. Maybe they’re nervous, overlooked, aging into the role—or waiting for gay men to stop treating every hookup like an audition.
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