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“Constantly proving yourself is a privilege.” – Danielle Milner

 Welcome to episode 240 of The CUInsight Experience podcast with your hosts, Randy Smith, co-founder of CUInsight.com, and Jill Nowacki, co-founder, president and CEO of Zealyst.

This episode is sponsored by Trellance. Trellance is a leading technology partner for credit unions, delivering innovative technology solutions to help credit unions achieve more. With a comprehensive suite of analytics, cloud and talent solutions, the Trellance team ensures credit unions increase efficiency, manage risk, and improve member experience. Learn more here!

In this 2026 season, Jill and I will have conversations centered around leadership, credit unions, and living our best lives. We will have some of the most respected leaders from around credit unions who we are grateful to call friends join us in the discussion from time to time too.

For this episode, we are thrilled to bring on Danielle Milner, CEO of First Responders Credit Union in Boston, to help us discuss the concept of opportunity. Listen in as Danielle reflects on her first year as CEO, including the unexpected lessons that came from moving across the country and stepping into a leadership role at an organization with such a strong history and identity. She shares how her team and board welcomed her almost immediately and how a family emergency shortly after her arrival showed her just how much care and connection existed within the organization even after just a small amount of time.

From there, we talk about the importance of authenticity when deciding who we want to work with and how experience can make it easier to recognize when a relationship simply isn’t the right fit. We also explore the expectations leaders carry into new roles and the surprising ways that those expectations can change once we’re in the seat.

A big part of our conversation is centered on Danielle’s “notebook” of ideas and the discipline required to decide which ones deserve action. We discuss why saying no can create opportunity, how leaders can communicate priorities more clearly, and why inviting people to challenge our ideas can create authentic ownership rather than just compliance.

Danielle enthusiastically explains why growing other leaders is her favorite part of leadership, while we talk about how curiosity, trust, and even a willingness to “poke holes” can help teams make better decisions. We also take a close look at developing talent via stretch assignments, recognizing strengths we may not initially see in people, and building leadership teams that complement our own weaknesses.

Finally, as we get close to the end of our conversation, we look ahead at the credit union movement and the need to focus less on tools like AI and more on the outcomes that such tools are supposed to create. For Danielle, relevance starts with understanding who we serve and why it matters, and we finally do wrap up with a thought for anyone pursuing a leadership role: sometimes, the right opportunity isn’t just about finding the right seat but is rather about finding the right home for that seat! Enjoy our conversation with Danielle Milner! 

Find the full show notes on cuinsight.com.

Connect with Danielle:
Danielle Milner, CEO of First Responders Credit Union
firstresponderscu.org
Danielle: Muck Rack
First Responders Credit Union: Lin