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Giving Your Adult Child's Heartbreak to God
Description
When your adult child is going through heartbreak, it can be difficult to know what to do. You want to protect them, take away their pain, and somehow make everything better—but you can't walk through the heartbreak for them. Whether they are grieving a breakup, betrayal, disappointment, or another painful relationship experience, Christian parents can learn to support their adult children while trusting God to carry them through the storm.
Isaiah 43:2 reminds us that God doesn't promise a life without painful seasons, but He does promise His presence in the middle of them: “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you.” As a parent, that means you don't have to fix your adult child's heartbreak. You can listen, offer a steady and loving presence, pray for them, and give their pain and future to God, trusting Him to bring healing, wisdom, and hope in His timing.
Highlights
- How to support an adult child through heartbreak without trying to fix everything
- Why parents must learn to trust God with their grown children's pain
- How Isaiah 43:2 offers hope in seasons of grief and emotional pain
- Practical ways to be present for an adult child who is hurting
- Why listening can be more helpful than offering advice or pity
- How to cast your own anxiety about your child's pain on God
- Finding faith, hope, and love while waiting for healing and redemption
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Full Transcript Below:
Giving Your Adult Child’s Heartbreak to God
By: Lia Girard
Bible Reading:
When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
– Isaiah 43:2, NIV
As Christians, we know that Jesus doesn’t promise a trouble-free life here on earth. Which naturally means we can expect that there will be days or seasons of pain, heartache, confusion, or grief. However, just knowing that we’re human (and that hurt will find us eventually) doesn’t pre