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In this week’s episode, I unpack why I do not care to be a nice person or depicted as such. I discuss why I think it is more important to be kind than it is to be nice, and why the two are not interchangeable. And if you've ever heard the saying that "nice guys finish last," you'll understand why I say this.

Then I get into dating and what does a man owe you after 3 months of dating. Is there a difference between what you think he owes you, and what you deserve? I unpack the things I think he does owe you, and what he doesn't. And ladies, we're talking reciprocity too! If he's showing up for you, are you showing up for him? 

And then, I had to unpack how hard it is not have chemistry with someone but not compatibility, and how daunting that can be. While many people think chemistry is what's most important, realistically, compatibility is more important. You can have attraction and sexual tension with someone, but if you aren't compatible, the relationship will not work. 

And finally, I discuss some of the difficulties that can come with being being a foreigner in America.

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