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#91 – One Sentence Ended Our Six Year Friendship
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This week, we’re talking about adult friendships and the art of saying no, the friend who called Jocelyn’s graduation a family thing after six years, and the trauma bonds that fall apart the minute your life starts improving. Whether you’re navigating friends who disappear when it is time to celebrate you, people pleasing that has you saying yes when your spirit says no, or that one person who leaves you drained every single time, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen.
Acast Show Notes
• The viral graduation TikTok, the oversleep excuse, and Jade’s instant verdict
• Jocelyn’s own graduation story and the friend of six years who called it a family thing
• The HR sendoff: wishing people well in their future endeavors
• Trauma bonds, better credit, and the friends who leave when you level up
• Erykah Badu vibes, Gemini energy, and the eccentric phase that got too expensive
• The Indiana nap shop and why the hate makes no sense
• Do not invite me to the wedding if I never make the cookouts, girls nights, or coffee breaks
• David Banner’s grand skipping entrance
• Vibe Tribe shout outs and the Seoul2Screen reveal
• The parasailing request and the version of Jocelyn that retired in 2018
• The art of no, energy leeches, and pouring from an empty cup
• The year of no and frozen credit cards
• The mediocre nails incident
• Jocelyn’s ADHD medication update and a mental health check in
Timestamps:
00:00 Cappuccino or Americano, vetoed immediately
01:05 The graduation TikTok question
02:05 Jade’s instant verdict
03:20 The graduate posts her receipts
06:10 Jocelyn’s graduation and the family thing excuse
09:15 The HR sendoff
11:10 Trauma bonds and friends who leave when you level up
15:15 The cussing progress report
16:40 Erykah Badu vibes and peak Gemini behavior
20:55 Being eccentric is expensive
23:10 The Indiana nap shop
28:10 Do not invite me to the wedding if I miss the cookouts
29:55 Our algorithms are showing out
33:20 David Banner’s grand entrance
37:20 Vibe Tribe shout outs
39:50 K-dramas and the Seoul2Screen reveal
46:40 The parasailing story
49:20 Born selfish and thankful for it
51:20 The art of no
52:50 Energy leeches, the true definition
54:55 No to Jamaica, yes to bingo
56:30 You cannot pour from an empty cup
59:00 The year of no and frozen credit cards
60:55 Why is every logo gray now
63:45 The mediocre nails incident
67:05 The ADHD update
70:20 Wrap up and where to find us
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