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Grace Fooden-Correy has heard two seemingly opposite judgments throughout her life: “She thinks she’s white” and “You don’t have to tell people you’re mixed. You look Black.”

In this episode of A Mixed Executive Perspective, Grace explains how both comments placed the same burden on her: making her identity easier for other people to categorize.

She explores mixed identity, Black identity, belonging, code-switching, and the pressure to manage other people’s comfort in predominantly Black and white spaces. Grace also discusses how identifying herself as mixed became a workplace and social survival strategy, and why she ultimately stopped performing her identity for acceptance.

For parents raising mixed children, this episode offers an important reminder: children need honest conversations and practical language to understand how race, culture, and identity may be interpreted by others.

You do not have to pick a side. You have the right to own your complete identity.

▶︎ In This Episode

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:45 Two Comments, One Message

01:32 “She Thinks She’s White”

02:28 “You Look Black”

03:12 Identity as a Safety Strategy

04:22 Preparing Mixed Children

05:24 The Pressure to Pick a Side

07:08 Owning Your Full Identity

08:34 Closing Thoughts

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