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How do you forgive someone when what they did was truly wrong?
Season 1
Episode 123
Published 1Â month, 1Â week ago
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Send us Fan MailWhat are you still carrying because you believe you have a right to carry it?Anger. Resentment. Betrayal. Father wounds. An apology you never received. Years you can't get back.In this solo episode of The Redeemed Podcast, Lauren Burns talks honestly about biblical forgiveness and what it means to surrender anger and resentment without pretending the hurt wasn't real.While reading Jeremiah 32, Lauren was struck by an unusual act of faith: God tells Jeremiah to purchase a field while Jerusalem is under siege and the land is being overtaken by Babylon.From a human perspective, it makes absolutely no sense.But Jeremiah acts on something he cannot yet see: God has promised restoration on the other side of devastation.And that raises an important question:What if forgiveness is believing God enough to release what happened and trust Him with what comes next?Lauren also shares from her own journey of healing while writing STOLEN: A True Story—Kidnapped, Rescued, Redeemed, including what God has continued to teach her about father wounds, anger, forgiveness and healing. The transcript makes clear that writing the book has continued to uncover layers of healing rather than simply revisiting a story that was already completely resolved.In this episode:
- Why forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was okay
- The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation
- Why healthy boundaries can still be necessary
- What Jeremiah's field teaches us about trusting God's future
- How unforgiveness can affect relationships, marriage and parenting
- Why healing can happen in layers
- How to surrender anger when it feels justified
- Why the devastation doesn't get the final word