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302: Ladies Q&A! Moving from Purity Culture to Pleasure
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This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup
0:59 — Verse of the day
1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions
1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty
4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden
4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful
8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex
9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like
10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture
11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband
14:18 — Shame about having desire at all
16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting
18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill
18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it
20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding
20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle
22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm
23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure?
25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander
26:40 — Closing prayer
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