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Les Giblin’s The Art of Dealing with People explores the foundational role of human relations in achieving personal success and happiness. The book argues that effective social interaction is a learned skill based on understanding the universal human ego, which craves recognition and a sense of worth. According to the author, people with low self-esteem often act out in hostile or defensive ways, while those with healthy self-regard are naturally more generous and cooperative. To influence others effectively, one must move beyond superficial gimmicks and focus on authentically enhancing the ego of those around them. By practicing sincere praise and acknowledging the individual importance of every person, individuals can foster better relationships in both their professional and private lives. Ultimately, the book emphasizes that satisfying the ego-hunger of others is the most reliable path to mutual cooperation and social harmony.