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When Boundaries Save Relationships | Birmingham News
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At 61 and retired, R. Eric Thomas has cut ties with friends who’ve shown bigotry—ghosting them without explanation because he won’t waste energy on people whose views clash with his. The advice? You don’t owe everyone a lesson, but calling out harmful words can make others pause—and maybe reveal relationships that weren’t worth saving in the first place. He suggests seeking communities aligned with your values to build deeper, more meaningful bonds.
Meanwhile, a friend of 45 years is trapped caring for her husband’s decades-long alcoholism, sacrificing her own well-being while he denies the problem and deteriorates. Her friend is torn and exhausted. The advice? Addiction recovery support groups like Al-Anon or SMART Recovery Family can offer lifelines—not just for the person struggling, but for those holding them up. Encourage your friend to attend a meeting together; sometimes, it’s not about fixing the other person, but freeing yourself from the weight you’ve been carrying alone.
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