Episode Details

Last week we heard from a wife trying to figure out if she can ever trust her husband again after discovering his affair. This week we're staying on him.

All we know about him comes from her email. Four sentences. He denied it at first. Then admitted everything. He says he wants to save the marriage. He's been remorseful and answering her questions.

That's it. And it's actually enough to ask the most important question of his recovery.

Is he doing this because he's genuinely reckoning with who he was when he made these choices — what it says about him, what was missing in him, what he was actually after? Or is he doing this because losing his marriage, his family, his life as he knows it is terrifying — and fixing things is the fastest way to stop the bleeding?

Both look identical right now. The difference only shows up later. When the pressure lets up. When things start feeling normal again.

Corey and Pam talk through what that difference actually looks like over time — and why the question doesn't just belong to him.

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