Episode Details

You can meet men.

You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential…

But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship.

So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong.

Do you need to choose better men?

Be less available?

Play it cooler?

Change your profile?

Be more in your feminine energy?

Finally fix whatever it is that keeps making men disappear?

Because after years of dating, it starts to feel like dating is this thing you have to finally get "right" before you get the relationship.

And that’s exactly where the problem is.

In this episode, I show you why trying to get dating "right" can actually keep the relationship feeling permanently out of reach.

And why if you want to finally have the relationship, we have to entirely change the way that you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship. 

Because the relationship doesn’t have to be this huge thing you’re trying so hard to finally get.

It gets to become easy.

A no-brainer.

The natural next step.

If you’re sick of another man, another talking stage, another couple of dates and then somehow ending up right back where you started, hit play and listen to this episode now.

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