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Why does the dating market suck, and why are marriage and fertility rates down?… Well, by the time a boy in this country turns 18, he has already been suspended twice as often, diagnosed with a learning disability three times as often, and told none of it matters because he’s a boy. For 30 years we’ve been told the story that men are the problem - they’re immature, they’re not stepping up. The data says something almost nobody’s willing to say out loud: the men are reading the numbers correctly, and the story is the lie.

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00:00:00 The Dating Crisis Hitting Young Men Hardest

00:02:18 The Alarming Data Behind Male Loneliness

00:06:09 Why Schools Are Failing Boys From Kindergarten

00:16:10 How Left-Wing Colleges Reshaped Young Men

00:28:19 Why Progressives Turned Against Traditional Marriage

00:32:33 The Sexual Revolution’s Hidden Cost on Marriage

00:39:27 What Women Say They Want vs. What Men Hear

00:46:29 Why Dating Apps Are Rigged Against Men

00:49:24 The Conservative Dating Market Has Hope

00:51:28 How Modern Culture Lied to Both Men and Women

00:52:14 Why Young Men Should Reject Black Pill Culture

00:54:40 Where Men Can Actually Find Marriage-Minded Women

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