Episode Details

Is this all I am now? The one who takes care of everyone? If that thought has crossed your mind, this shorter practice is for you. We're building on Sunday's conversation with a simple truth: "I am" statements aren't a one-and-done fix — they're a practice, one that gets stronger every time you return to it.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why "I am" statements work best as an ongoing practice, not a single moment of belief
• The neuroscience behind why repetition reshapes your sense of identity over time
• Specific moments in your day where this practice can meet you — before appointments, at your parents' door, morning and night

Reclaim your identity that goes beyond being a parent and a caregiver. Press play now.

Resources & Links:

Oh, hello midlife on Substack Join Valerie’s biweekly newsletter for hot takes on the three "A’s": Aging gracefully, AI in work, and Affirmations for grounding. 

The Calm Kit: Sign up for 'The Midlife Minuet' and receive your free "10-Minute Calm Kit for Sandwich Generation Moms" as a special thank you! Midlife Mindfulness Toolkit

Read her articles: ohhellomidlife.com

You’re listening to the right show, formerly known as the Mindful Life Changes or Mindful Career Change. We’ve pivoted through the years, but finally landed on the right path: content for moms in the ‘Sandwich Generation’, because midlife disruption doesn't have to break you. 

New episodes drop on:

• Sundays: 20-min episodes addressing common midlife challenges with practical strategies plus a mindfulness practice (affirmations, mantras, or meditations)
• Wednesdays: Bite-sized episodes to reinforce Sunday's mindfulness technique & reset your week

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Discover Valerie's articles on ohhellomidlife.com or watch her videos on YouTube @ohhellomidlife

This podcast explores patience, meditation, confidence, presence, and overcoming resentment while cultivating calm, peace, mindfulness, clarity, mantras, and addressing loneliness and burn out; it covers boundaries, caregiving, guilt, affirmations, working moms, self-care, midlife crisis, empty nesters, empowerment, people pleasing, compassion fatigue, family caregiving, stress relief, self-worth, stress management, and how to shift from reactive to centered when feeling short tempered, offering tools for self acceptance, easing mental exhaustion, building emotional resilience, harnessing inner strength, and preventing caregiver fatigue for those in the sandwich generation through expert advice on boundaries setting.