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A Fortune 125 executive seat, elite credentials, and a life that looks “made” from the outside and yet one sentence slips out at lunch: “My life sucks.” That surprising honesty kicks off our conversation with Sonny Garg, former C-suite leader and author of Desi 2.0: My Family’s American Dream and the Cost of Never Being Enough.

We dig into the real engine behind nonstop striving: chasing validation. Sonny breaks down how self-worth can get welded to achievements, especially for kids of immigrants raised on relentless “shoulds” about school, status, and success. We talk about the comparison trap, the way social media amplifies performance over authenticity, and why even “good” habits can become part of the happiness industrial complex if you never question what you’re optimizing for.

Then we get practical. Sonny explains his shift toward a “minimally viable me,” the core version of himself he wanted to build from, and why being a present husband and dad required redefining “enough.” That meant earning less, dropping status signaling, and changing his environment so his daily life matched his values. He also shares the harder inflection point: a seizure at work that left him with a fractured T7 vertebrae and forced a deeper reckoning about burnout, ego, and the painful limits of living for someone else’s approval.

If you’ve ever wondered why the ladder still feels empty, Sonny leaves us with questions worth returning to: What are you chasing, and who told you it was worth chasing? Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.

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