Episode Details

What if the relationship you thought was over could be rebuilt better than before? Bella Crottie (Bella K), relationship and feminine embodiment coach, shares her journey through two marriages, two divorces, and the unexpected reconciliation with her second ex-husband.

In this honest conversation, Bella discusses:

• ​ People-pleasing and the “good girl” role in her 20s
• ​ Why she kept repeating the same relationship patterns
• ​ The power of boundaries, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy
• ​ Feminine embodiment work at the nervous system level
• ​ How real change starts from within

If you’re in your 20s navigating love, people-pleasing, or wanting healthier connections, this episode offers deep, practical wisdom.

Bella helps people rebuild trust, connection, and intimacy by healing the patterns that sabotage relationships.

Timestamps below ⬇️

#RelationshipCoach #FeminineEmbodiment #BoundariesInLove #EmotionalIntimacy #SecondChances #HealthyRelationships

Connect with Bella Krutik

Website :https://bellakcoaching.com/#home-hero

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bellakcoaching/

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Chapters

0:00 - Intro & Welcome Bella Crottie (Bella K)

1:40 - 20s: People-Pleasing & the “Good Girl” Role

8:15 - First Marriage, Divorce & Repeating Patterns

15:30 - Hitting Rock Bottom After the Second Divorce

23:10 - Realizing She Was the Common Denominator

31:45 - Boundaries, Vulnerability & Emotional Intimacy

40:20 - Feminine Embodiment & Nervous System Work

48:50 - Advice for Young Adults on Love & Self-Worth

57:15 - Final Thoughts on Rebuilding Connection