Episode Details

A chief officer reflects on the burdens of senior leadership. While grateful for its privileges, he’s keenly aware his title can put up barriers between himself and others. 

Typical burdens of leadership:

• People put up barriers because of your power;
• You are a public figure and will get judged, often harshly;
• You are always on display;
• Feeling entitled because of your heavy lifting.

Tom suggests three tips to help you manage your power:

1. Get conscious about your power;
2. Share selectively;
3. Be humble.

Resources for humilty:

Humility as Strength

Humble Inquiry

If you’re like Michelle and feel yourself being star struck in the face of corporate celebrity, these episodes might help:

252 - How to Build Self-Esteem

219 - How to Set Boundaries

241 - Conquering People Pleasing

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A transcript of this month’s episode is here. 

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