Episode Details

This week, the Agony Aunties answer a question that so many of us will recognise: why is it so hard to make the changes we desperately want to make? From skipping the exercise class you've already paid for to using food, smoking or spending as a way to cope, Julia, Sophie and Emily explore the hidden roots of self-sabotage, shame and the belief that we're incapable of change. Together, they discuss how our childhood experiences shape our sense of agency, why self-compassion is the key to breaking old patterns, and practical ways to begin building a kinder relationship with yourself—one small step at a time.

Resources mentioned:

• Learn more about Jan Winhall's work on attachment, trauma and the nervous system: https://janwinhall.com

• • Find out more about Internal Family Systems (IFS): https://ifs-institute.com

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