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#87 – She Had To Put Her Divorce In The Newspaper
Description
This week, we're talking about divorce, money struggles, and the growth that comes after the broke years. Jade tells the story of putting an ad in the newspaper just to divorce a man she could not find, and Jocelyn relives the car that started smoking at the bank right before the wheels quite literally fell off. We get into friends who lie to your face, listening the first time instead of learning the hard way, why this podcast exists, and the childhood cake story Jocelyn never planned to tell. Whether you're navigating a fresh start, a job you are ready to leave, or a good cry you have been holding in, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen.
Show Notes
• Back to school as adults, clinicals, and graduation plans
• Corporate ladder fatigue and what managing people really involves
• Friends who lie to your face and why we let them
• The JD Byrider car saga and the broke years, 2011 to 2014
• Jade's divorce and the newspaper ad the court required
• Whitney, Luther, and Yolanda Adams appreciation moment
• When was your last good cry and what brings it on
• Listening to that inner voice and leaving what no longer fits
• Why A Girls Perspective exists and what the Vibe Tribe really is
• Upbringing, accountability, and the icing that came off the cake
• Question of the week: what gets your good cry going
Timestamps:
00:00 Catching up, school, and graduation plans
05:00 Nobody wants to climb the ladder
06:15 Managing people means documentation
07:45 Friends who lie to your face
12:15 The JD Byrider era begins
17:00 The car starts smoking at the bank
20:00 The Sonata and the pharmacy closing
21:30 The walk of shame back to the dealership
23:30 The acceleration lane rant
26:00 The Fiesta gives out on the highway
27:45 The engine was dead
29:15 Jade's divorce and the newspaper ad
32:00 Paying to get her own name back
32:45 We curse too much
34:45 Whitney, Luther, and Yolanda Adams
36:45 When was your last good cry
39:30 Jocelyn's gratitude cry
42:00 Listening the first time
43:30 When the spirit says leave the job
44:00 Why this podcast exists
48:45 Don't blame the parents
51:00 Jocelyn snuck out in Chicago
53:30 Earning every last one
55:20 The cake story
57:55 Chocolate cake versus yellow cake
59:10 Jocelyn's sweet tooth confession
01:00:30 Question of the week
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