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Last week we talked about valleys and mountains. Valleys being those dreaded low places in life, and mountains being those beautiful highs. We all want to stay in our mountaintop experiences, but we can’t. Do you remember why? Because nothing grows on top of a mountain. If you go high enough, the view is breathtaking, but the air is too thin for anything to grow.

And that’s the way we are.

The highs are beautiful, but we’re not growing when we’ve reached the pinnacle. God wants His girls continually growing. Don’t you realize there is so much more potential in you? God loves you so much, He won’t allow you to remain in a place where that potential becomes stagnant. So, to the valleys we go.

The valley is where everything grows. Down here, sis, in these trenches, is where you grow. God’s greatest desire isn’t simply for you to be happy or comfortable. It’s for you to know Him, trust Him, and become the fullness of who He created you to be.

Can you see that? Your valley isn’t evidence that God has forsaken you—it’s often evidence that He hasn’t. He loves you entirely too much to leave you standing on that mountaintop.

Where would I be if I hadn’t struggled with my health and faced death? Where would I be if I hadn’t gone through financial disaster and lost it all? Where would I be if I hadn’t been crushed on this journey to the point of wanting to quit? Where would I be if my family hadn’t endured seven years of division and separation?

Would I be happier? Actually, no.

Would I be further along? Absolutely not.

Without those hardships, those struggles, and those deep valleys, I wouldn’t have discovered I could really trust God. I would still be so full of myself—convinced my success was something I had earned. I would think the house I owned, the car I drove, and the clothes I wore defined me. I would have missed the miracle of waking up to another day of life. I would still be standing on my mountain, looking down on those who were struggling, quietly assuming they must have done something wrong while I had somehow done everything right.

Thank You, Lord, for not leaving me there.

Because on that mountain, I would have missed the sweetness of humility. I would have taken so much for granted. I would have remained trapped in my performance, my striving, and my self-importance.

And perhaps most tragically of all, I would have walked through this life with knowing ABOUT God, but not really KNOWING him, not really TRUSTING him, not really LEANING on him, not really changed by him, and not really truly LOVING him.

Here, in the middle of those struggles and hardships, I found something I never would have discovered on the mountain:

He didn’t leave me here.
He’s growing me here.

So why am I coming back around to this valley teaching? Quite simply, because that’s exactly where the Holy Spirit led me this morning. And I believe this message isn’t just for someone out there—it’s for someone listening right now. Here’s what He put on my heart…

Someone woke up today feeling incredibly alone.

Someone is dealing with people who are exhausting, difficult, and beyond their ability to change.

Someone is married to an unbeliever and wondering how much longer they can carry the weight of that burden.

Someone is watching their aging parents face decisions they never wanted to make, navigating circumstances where every option feels impossible.

Someone is crying out for their prodigal, wondering when they’ll finally come home.

Someone is facing financial devastation and doesn’t know how they’re going to make it.

Someone is standing in the middle of a mess they cannot fix, no matter how hard they try.

Someone is walking through the darkest wilderness season of their life and quietly wondering, “Am I ever going to get out of this?”

Sis, if that’s you, I want you to hear this clearly: Y