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When Is A Boundary Unreasonable For Insecurity!

She asks you to cut off one friend. You do it. Six months later there's a new name on the list. That's the tell: the friend was never the problem.

In Ep464 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn walk through a real coaching case and draw the line between a boundary that protects a relationship and one that just manages someone's insecurity.

🔑 What we cover:
• The full story: a coach, a late-night compliment text, and a fight that's still going 18 months later
• Why the friend is almost always a proxy, and how to spot it
• "If it's not this person, it's the next one"—the test that ends the debate
• Owning the optics even when you did nothing wrong
• Cass and Kathryn's actual rule: no his-friends and her-friends, only collective friends
• You're allowed to be insecure. You're not allowed to be in and out.
• How to set the real boundary—about the future, not about the friend
• When she says she's done: the cool-off, and why chasing makes it worse
• Why "go clean up your baggage" is a trap (everybody has some)

(Catch up on Ep463: Powerful At Work, Powerless At Home — https://youtu.be/VFijE8WXuFc)

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