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If Nobody Thinks Without You, You're Still the Bottleneck
Description
Over the past two episodes we've explored how leaders can unintentionally become the bottleneck in their organisations—first by carrying too much themselves, then by training others to depend on them.
This episode takes the next step.
What kind of team is your leadership creating?
Every interaction with your team teaches something. Your reactions, your questions, your willingness to listen, and even your instinct to step in all shape the culture around you.
Are you building confidence and judgement?
Or are you quietly creating dependence?
Drawing on two personal leadership experiences—one from an interim management role and another remembered by a former colleague twenty years later—I explore why great leadership isn't measured by how indispensable you become, but by how capable other people become because they worked with you.
If you've ever found yourself saying, "My team always asks me," this episode may help you understand why—and, more importantly, what to do about it.
In this episode
00:00 Welcome and context
00:41 Confidence or dependence: what are you creating?
01:46 How leaders unintentionally train their teams
02:40 An interim leadership role and changing a team's culture
03:34 What happens when people are trusted to think
04:58 A conversation remembered twenty years later
06:01 Producing results versus developing people
07:13 Questions every leader should ask themselves
08:13 Final reflections and invitation to continue the conversation
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