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Back to EpisodesThe IEP Fight - How Parents Get Stalled in Reasonable Accommodations with Jason Wright, Attorney | The Gaslit Truth Podcast with Dr Teralyn Sell and Therapist Jenn Schmitz
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Schools are getting sued, teachers are burning out, and parents keep hearing the same slippery phrases: “reasonable accommodations,” “board policy,” and “trust the process.” We’re not buying it. We sit down with family law attorney Jason Wright to explain why special education support so often turns into delay, confusion, and conflict, especially when districts treat every request like a threat to their limited resources.
We get specific about how the system works in real life: why parents are labeled as “biased” the moment they push back, why having an advocate can change the tone in the room, and how grievance procedures can quietly become a trap. Jason breaks down what “exhausting administrative remedies” looks like, how districts can steer families away from the correct process, and why paperwork and timelines matter more than most parents are ever told.
We also tackle the most sensitive part head-on: mental health labels in schools, including ADHD. We talk about the pressure some families feel to pursue diagnosis or medication just to unlock services, and why informed consent should include the long-term risks. Those labels can show up later in military eligibility, federal job applications, and insurance, even if the child outgrows the issue. We close with clear explanations of 504 plans vs IEPs, what ARD meetings really feel like, and a myth we want gone for good: IEPs do not automatically follow students into college.
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