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How can you make yourself more attractive? Good news - it’s not just about appearance.

Sadia Khan is a relationship coach and therapist who helps men understand what women are really looking for, and women understand men’s needs rather than demonise them.

What’s the brutal truth about cheating? How can you tell if someone is not cut out for marriage? Is there such a thing as ‘the one’? We explore all these questions as well as the recent controversy around leaked phone calls, spicy messages and forgery allegations.

Check out Sadia’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/@sadiapsychology
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Try SHIFT for free at: https://shiftyourphone.com/Check out 321 here: https://321course.com/nextgenApply to join the best podcast school in the world: https://thepodpro.com/elliotCHAPTERS:00:00 What’s going on with young people and s*x?02:55 Is love unconditional?05:24 Is there such a thing as ‘the one’?11:08 Christian monogamy vs Muslim polygamy13:14 Do all men cheat?15:56 How does having four wives work?17:31 Doesn’t monogamy produce the best outcomes?19:37 How should a man ask for more sx?21:28 Should sx be a duty for wives?23:03 What is the biggest struggle for Gen Z guys?26:31 Where are the Gen Z role models?30:34 Should you settle in a relationship?31:44 Where should you start if you want to find a partner?34:50 Why looksmaxxing can put girls off37:39 What’s your biggest relationship struggle personally?39:12 Would you tolerate a guy cheating?40:18 Should women uphold traditional roles?46:34 Lonely people are terrifying52:45 Labels are ruining dating55:13 Should women hold off from sleeping with men?56:20 Is cheating making women more masculine?58:21 What Elliot would like Gen Z girls to know about guys1:01:27 Why don’t you have kids?1:03:51 Did you photoshop your degrees?1:06:24 The leaked phone call1:13:20 Fake degree allegations1:16:58 The leaked messages1:19:11 How the backlash has affected Sadia1:21:41 What do other dating coaches get wrong?1:23:37 Three things men should focus on1:25:34 Three things women should focus on1:28:28 The biggest criticism levelled at Sadia1:30:24 Different races have different relationship issues1:33:39 Wrapping upSubscribe to my Substack to support the show and join the community! https://elliotbewick.substack.com/My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliotbewick/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@elliotbewickX: https://x.com/elliotbewickABOUT THE NEXT GENERATION: In a world saturated by social media and marked by skyrocketing rates of anxiety, depression, and ADHD among Gen Z, young people are growing up in a landscape of chaos and contradiction. While protests swell in city streets and activists hurl soup at famous artworks to demand climate action, a quieter crisis unfolds within - the mental and emotional battles faced by a generation trying to make sense of it all.The Next Generation is hosted by 20-year-old Elliot Bewick, offering a raw and honest look at the world through the eyes of those living in it. Bringing together insight from professionals and young people on the ground, this podcast isn’t here to complain or chase clout. It’s here to bend the arc of the modern world towards solutions, truth and a love for the beautiful adventure of life itself.