Episode Details

Many Christian parents want to talk to their kids about sex and sexuality in healthy, biblical ways, but feel unsure where to begin. In today’s episode, Kelly Edmiston talks about how to move away from fear, silence, and shame-based messaging and instead help our kids understand the goodness of their bodies, God’s design for sex, and the importance of open, ongoing conversations in the home.

We discuss how purity culture shaped many parents’ own experiences, why discipleship matters so much in these conversations, and how parents can build trust with their kids while still holding biblical convictions. We also talk about practical ways to make sex talks feel more natural and less intimidating for both parents and children.

Notes: use your discretion when it comes to listening to this conversation with your kids present, we do use accurate terminology for body parts and sexuality.

Kelly is the author of Shame-Free Sex Talks, is lead Pastor at Vineyard Church in Sugar Land, Texas and a mom of three kids. 

(00:00) Introduction to the Conversation

(02:57) Navigating Sexuality Conversations with Kids

(05:59) Understanding Shame in Sexuality Discussions

(08:49) The Importance of Normalizing Conversations

(11:55) Spiritual Sexuality: Integrating Faith and Sexuality

(15:08) Values-Based Approach to Sexuality Education

(18:04) Empowering Kids to Make Healthy Decisions

(21:00) Hope for Future Generations

(24:05 )Resources for Parents

Resources Mentioned

The Adventure Bible

Substack

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