Episode Details

Scripture is powerful. 

It has the power to comfort, guide, convict, and restore. But when it's taken out of context or used to control, it can also leave deep wounds.

In this conversation, Dr. Alison sits down with theologian and Mending the Soul co-founder Dr. Steven Tracy to explore how Scripture can be used as medicine—or as poison—for those who have experienced abuse.

Together, they unpack some of the most commonly misused passages around submission, forgiveness, honoring parents, and divorce, while offering a more faithful way of reading Scripture: one that reflects God's heart for the vulnerable, the oppressed, and the wounded.

Here’s what you’ll cover

* Why spiritually abusive people often weaponize Scripture* How to recognize the difference between biblical truth and spiritual manipulation* What God reveals about His heart for those experiencing abuse* Why humility matters when we interpret Scripture* How healthy boundaries honor both God and human dignity* How survivors can begin rebuilding trust in both God and His Word

Whether you've experienced spiritual abuse yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to handle Scripture with greater wisdom and compassion, this conversation offers both clarity and hope.

Because God's Word was never meant to keep you trapped in harm.

It was always meant to lead you toward healing.

More Resources:

You can now preorder Dr. Alison’s newest book, The Secure Soul, and immediately receive the first 3 chapters as well as early access to the companion guide!

Read Dr. Steven Tracy’s book: To Heal or Harm

Connect further with @dralisoncook on Instagram

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Want to hear more like this? Start here:

Episode 163: Healing Spiritual Wounds – Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces

Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How Do I Heal?

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