Episode Details

Today's episode Val, Courtney, and Lisa dive into the evocative novel Call Me By Your Name by André Aciman, exploring its themes of summer romance, self-identity, and profound emotional and physical connection. They analyze the symbolism woven into the story, discuss the characters' journeys, and share personal insights on love and acceptance.

In this episode:

• Key insights into Elio and Oliver's relationship, exploring themes of obsession, self-discovery, and mutual acceptance

• The symbolism of peaches and bodily intimacy in expressing connection and identity

• Discussions on age differences, societal acceptance, and the significance of authentic love

• Personal anecdotes highlighting the universality of fleeting yet impactful summer relationships

• The importance of honesty, vulnerability, and embracing one's true feelings
• The cultural context of sexuality and relationships in the 1980s versus today

Resources & Links:

• Call Me By Your Name by André Aciman - Amazon link for the book

• André Aciman - Official website
• Call Me By Your Name (Movie)

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Chapters

• (00:00:00) - THE PERFECTION OF ROMANCE
• (00:00:31) - Oh My Perfect Romance
• (00:00:53) - To Find Me: The Book and Movie
• (00:03:11) - The Summer of Elio
• (00:04:22) - The Color of Love
• (00:06:55) - The Love Story of Elio and Oliver
• (00:12:29) - The Couple's Wedding in Italy
• (00:13:59) - The Summer of Love
• (00:16:42) - The Secret To Sharing A Bathroom
• (00:20:06) - Peeing In Front Of My Love Interest
• (00:23:55) - The Poop in Love
• (00:24:50) - In the Elevator With Emily
• (00:25:41) - "Man to Man Love Story"
• (00:28:40) - The Story of Ilio And Oliver
• (00:31:49) - Could These Guys Ever Get Together?
• (00:36:45) - How To Scratch An Itchy Face
• (00:39:00) - In The Elevator With Courtney
• (00:41:46) - Andre on Talking About How He Feels
• (00:44:20) - The Importance Of Love
• (00:49:09) - MY PERPETUAL ROMANCE