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Hit Songs, Phil Valentine Memories, Trump Stories & “Arlington” w/Trace Adkins Pt. 2 :: Ep 44 Circling the Drain Podcast
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In Part 2 of our deep-dive with country icon Trace Adkins, we get the stories behind his most emotional and controversial songs, from “Honky Tonk Badonkadonk” to “You’re Gonna Miss This” and “Arlington.” Trace shares powerful memories from Arlington National Cemetery, his candid take on Donald Trump, and the radio days with Phil Valentine that almost got people fired.
We also dig into his acting career, how he met his wife on a movie set, the wild origin of his dog “Gary Busey,” and why he believes live shows are now the only truly “real” part of the music business.
0:43 – If Trace had to be in a tribute band forever, who would he choose?
1:36 – Waylon Jennings’ “Honky Tonk Heroes” and how it inspired Trace’s “Dangerous Man” album cover
3:25 – The grind of album photo shoots and making a real, gritty cover shot
4:12 – The Phil Valentine show, stepdad life, and getting sick of “Honky Tonk Badonkadonk”
5:44 – Why “Honky Tonk Badonkadonk” is cleverly written, not just a novelty hit
6:42 – How the song became the most-played country song in strip club history
7:44 – The backroom label deals behind certain cuts and how “You’re Gonna Miss This” started as a wedding song
9:00 – “I thought it was too sappy” – Trace misjudges a song that becomes a massive number one
10:26 – Ashley Gorley’s hit-making juggernaut and why everyone wants one of his songs
11:04 – Writing “American Made” for the country’s 250th anniversary
11:38 – “Arlington” and “An Empty Chair” – songs that choke him up on stage
12:04 – Performing “Arlington” at Arlington National Cemetery and barely getting through it
12:43 – Why Trace only does “Arlington” for the right audiences (and never for drunks or festivals)
14:04 – The true story behind “Arlington” and Lance Corporal Patrick Nixon
16:26 – Playing “Arlington” on air, Phil Valentine’s reaction, and the emotional weight of the song
17:04 – Remembering Phil Valentine: sparring on-air, sharp wit, and real friendship
18:34 – A hilarious voicemail from Trace and joking about “your little radio show”
19:22 – Rodeo memories, FCC close calls, and the infamous “hot and juicy” weather report
21:18 – Live radio chaos: open mics, cussing and thinking they’d be fired
22:16 – Trace’s new production company “Fifth Rodeo” and its cowboy-with-a-fifth-of-whiskey logo
23:14 – Why Trace doesn’t want the pressure of doing a podcast
24:07 – From tractors to Lululemon and voiceovers: “degradation” of the conversation
24:19 – “Ultimate Cowboy Showdown,” real cowboys and concern for the horses
25:25 – Why some ranch work still has to be done on horseback
26:08 – Trace’s Christmas show: Celtic vibes, stories behind songs and gospel roots
27:32 – Feeling good about the Christmas show vs. “I’m sorry, Lord” after “Badonkadonk”
28:08 – Is memorizing dialog hard? How years on stage made acting easier
28:58 – Directors who demand word-for-word delivery vs. those who allow improvisation
29:46 – Meeting his wife on the set of “The Virginian” in Vancouver
30:21 – How his wife writes, acts and why their dog is named Gary Busey
31:50 – The Christmas parade, a weird looking puppy and the Gary Busey hair and teeth
32:05 – Writing a song for the 250th and the Freedom 250 concert controversy
32:48 – PBS Fourth of July, Trump’s event, and shifting TV schedules
34:02 – The best Trump impressions Trace has heard and how Trump exaggerated his own persona
35:43 – Riding in Trump’s limo and getting asked: “Are you reasonably faithful to your wife?”
36:55 – Trump Jr. explains his job: “I follow him around and put fires out”
37:42 – Wanting to be Ambassador to Australia or the “Office of Hell No”
38:00 – How Trace judges Trump