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Why So Many of Us Feel Like We Don't Belong | Pádraig Ó Tuama
Description
What does it mean to belong, to yourself, to others, and to a life that's constantly changing?
In this powerful conversation, Chip Conley sits down with Irish poet, theologian, and conflict mediator Padraig O Tuama to explore belonging, grief, identity, faith, and the wisdom that comes with midlife.
You'll learn:
- Why belonging isn't always what we think it is
- How poetry helps us navigate loss and uncertainty
- Padraig's journey through religion, sexuality, and reparative therapy
- What turning 40 taught him about mortality and meaning
- Why love may be life's most important practice
Filled with beautiful poetry, profound insights, and heartfelt stories, this episode is a reminder that even in life's most difficult seasons, you belong here.
Watch now and let us know: What line or insight stayed with you most?
Timestamps:
(02:30) Poetry as Cultural Memory
(05:19) The Purpose of Poetry
(06:41) When Is a Poem Finished?
(07:33) Becoming a Poet
(10:13) Faith, Sexuality, and Identity
(12:37) Exorcisms and Reparative Therapy
(19:16) Belonging and Conflict
(22:47) How to Be Alone
(25:12) Grief, Breathing, and Death
(30:16) Sleeping in His Mother's Bed
(33:19) Midlife and the Shock of Turning 40
(36:42) Birthday Prayer
(39:32) Midlife Awakening and Change
(41:36) The Facts of Life
(45:11) Love, Death, and Wisdom
(47:02) Desire, Lack, and Meaning
(48:13) Final Reflections and Closing
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