Episode Details

Your brain is convinced it knows how your love story ends. It's gathered all the evidence from your past and decided: this is just how it is. But your brain is not a fortune teller. It's a safety mechanism. And it is working with about 1% of the data.

In this episode of The Feminist Dating Show, Lily breaks down three reasons you might just be wrong that finding love is impossible — and why more is possible in your love life than you currently believe.

Inside episode 274:

• Why your brain's "it's never going to happen" narrative is a biological feature, not a fact about your future
• The math on how many people you haven't met yet — and what that means for your love life
• How to use the relationships you already have as evidence that more is coming
• The two things that actually change your timeline: proximity to opportunity and courageous behavior in the face of it
• Lily's ACK process for rewiring your brain toward possibility when scarcity takes over

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