Episode Details

If your athletes are blindsiding you with playing time conversations, the Player Impact Plan changes everything. Free template linked below. More coaching resources at coachfreetraining.com 

Playing time talks don't have to blow up your team culture.

I spent years thinking I was communicating clearly. Turns out clarity and confidence are two completely different things and the gap between them is exactly where athletes start creating stories in their heads.

👋🏼 I'm Coach Bre, a 4-time state champion volleyball coach and Certified Mental Performance Coach. I've spent 14+ years coaching girl athletes and built The Elite Competitor to give coaches proven, plug-and-play mental training systems that actually work.

In this episode, I'm sharing the system I now use with every single player on my roster:
✅ Why "here's your role" isn't enough (and what actually builds buy-in)
✅ The Player Impact Plan: what it is, what's in it, and how I use it
✅ How mental training reduces role resistance more than any conversation can
✅ Why I started sharing these plans with parents - and how it changed everything

🎯 Two girls quit my team after we won state. That moment changed how I communicate with athletes forever.

🕓 Key Moments:
00:00 Introduction
01:03 Clarity vs. Confidence
02:08 How Coach Bre Evolved
03:14 Defining Meaningful Roles
05:03 The Player Impact Plan
06:15 Biweekly Check-Ins
06:47 Mental Training & Self-Worth
11:23 Recap & Resources

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P.S. Here's what the research shows: 
⚡️ Athletes who use structured reset routines recover from errors up to 40% faster during competition. (Journal of Sport and Exercise Psychology, Mesagno & Mullane-Grant, 2010)
⚡️ Visualization activates the same neural pathways as physical practice, meaning mental reps have measurable impact on skill execution. (Journal of Neurophysiology, Jeannerod, 2001)
⚡️ 95% of elite athletes report using mental training, yet fewer than 10% of high school coaches have a formal system for teaching it. (Association for Applied Sport Psychology, 2021)  

The Coach Her Game YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping coaches of girl athletes strengthen their mental game and team culture in order to develop a competitive edge.

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