Episode Details

This week, Adam and Pris sit down with the hosts of one of the most respected podcasts in the non-monogamy space — Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Sotelo Matlack of Multiamory. Over a decade of real, research-backed content, and they're still going strong. We get into where polyamory and swinging actually overlap (and where they absolutely don't), the truth about unicorn hunters across both communities, jealousy, toxic masculinity, the one penis policy, and why swingers are just more fun at parties. Dedeker even calls us out. It's that kind of episode.

In This Episode:

• How Dedeker, Jase, and Emily became a trio — and how a collapsing quad turned into a decade-long podcast
• Poly vs. swinging: same umbrella, very different vibes
• Unicorn hunting: fun fantasy or ethical minefield?
• The one penis policy and toxic masculinity in the lifestyle
• Jealousy, compersion, and why everyone has their price
• What to do when partners are mismatched — one wants sex, one wants connection

Find Multiamory:
🌐 multiamory.com
🎙️ Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you listen
📸 Instagram: @multiamory_podcast
💬 Community: multiamory.supercast.com
📚 Book: Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships — available on Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble, and at your local bookstore

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Find Us:
🌐 beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Live on fullswapradio.com — Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central

Upcoming Events:
🎉 Beyond Monogamy Live @ Club Eden SA — June 20th (membership required)
🎉 Naughty N'awlins — July 8–12, New Orleans. Find our booth!
🎉 Krazy Winter Nights KC — Feb 19–21, 2027. Code: BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com