Episode Details

This episode discusses how we cultivate psychological closeness through digital environments. We explore the systematic process of forming and sustaining bonds by leveraging "multiplexity"—the use of various technological channels—to provide diverse levels of control and richness in our interactions.

• Exploring digital records allows partners to gain insights into preferences and backgrounds to reduce uncertainty.
• The use of multiple interconnected platforms directly influences the strength and depth of social ties.
• Text-based gestures and reactions serve as necessary substitutes for vocal and physical cues.
• Continuous passive knowledge of a network's thoughts fosters a sense of connectedness and reduces isolation.

Relational development models suggest that these lightweight and phatic interactions are essential for the evolution of human bonds in a mediated world.

Does having a passive awareness of your friends' digital updates make you feel more or less connected to them in person?

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