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You Have to Meet My Friends

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I had an idea recently that felt either incredibly brilliant… or like the beginning of a mild public humiliation.

Honestly, the jury is still out.

So here’s what I started doing:

I go live on my podcast, scroll through my phone, randomly call my friends, and they have absolutely NO idea they’re about to be on a podcast.

No warning.
No prep.
No “Hey, do you have a few minutes?” text.

Just me out here risking lifelong friendships for content 😅

The series is called You Have to Meet My Friends and somehow it has turned into one of my favorite things we’ve ever done.

Now let me be clear… sometimes this thing goes sideways FAST.

Sometimes nobody answers.

And there is truly nothing more humbling than staring into a camera while your phone rings six times and goes straight to voicemail. It’s basically a live-action reminder that everybody’s “brother” until they’re in a Costco parking lot ignoring your call.

But then…

Somebody picks up.

And that’s when the magic happens.

Because what comes out of these conversations is real life. No polished interview voice. No rehearsed answers. No “personal brand” version of people. Just honest moments with incredible humans caught completely off guard.

One minute we’re laughing about something ridiculous, the next minute somebody says something profound that hits me right between the eyes.

That’s the thing I’m loving most about this series:

You can’t manufacture real connection.

You can create the space for it.
You can take the risk for it.
You can press call and hope for the best.

But the real stuff? The meaningful stuff? That only happens when people show up as themselves.

And I think we’re starving for that right now.

Everything feels so scheduled. So polished. So optimized.

Meanwhile, some of the best moments in my life have happened unexpectedly. A random phone call. A conversation that almost didn’t happen. A moment I couldn’t have planned if I tried.

That’s what You Have to Meet My Friends is really about.

It’s a reminder that life still has room for surprise.

That spontaneity still matters.

That maybe the best conversations don’t happen in a studio with perfect lighting and scripted questions… maybe they happen when somebody answers the phone with:

“Wait… I’m on WHAT right now?!”

So if you’ve ever wondered what would happen if you leaned into the unknown a little more… come hang out with us.

And fair warning:

If you’re in my contacts… keep your phone nearby 😂

The next call might be yours.

This edition of The VIBE is proudly sponsored by Cardenas Law Group