Episode Details

What if you could help an aging parent move closer to you without paying investment property rates?

In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster sits down with mortgage expert Gabe Whitmer to discuss one of the most underutilized mortgage programs available today: the Family Opportunity Mortgage. Together, they explore how adult children can purchase homes for aging parents or disabled family members while potentially qualifying for primary residence financing benefits.

The conversation also dives into the growing role of Accessory Dwelling Units (ADUs), multigenerational housing solutions, and creative financing options that can help families stay connected while preserving independence.

Whether you're caring for an aging parent, supporting a disabled family member, or exploring housing solutions that create flexibility and long-term value, this episode provides practical strategies and expert guidance.

In This Episode

• What a Family Opportunity Mortgage is
• How children can buy homes for aging parents
• Qualification requirements and common misconceptions
• Interest rate advantages versus investment properties
• Housing options for disabled family members
• ADU financing strategies
• Home equity loans, HELOCs, and construction financing
• Why ADUs are becoming a major housing solution
• Multigenerational housing trends
• Creating "raving fans" through exceptional service

Gabe Whitmer is a nationally recognized mortgage banker and team leader with First Bank Mortgage. Since entering the mortgage industry in 2015, Gabe has built one of the top-performing mortgage teams in the country, ranking among the Top 30 teams nationally and finishing #1 in Tennessee.

Known for his expertise in creative mortgage solutions, investment financing, and client education, Gabe is passionate about helping families navigate complex housing decisions. He leads a high-volume team while maintaining a client-first approach that has earned him a reputation for creating lifelong relationships and "raving fans."

Outside of work, Gabe enjoys spending time with his wife, daughter, son, and their newest addition, a baby who has quickly become the center of the family's world.

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This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.

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Real estate is about more than buying and selling property. It is connected to how we live, build wealth, care for our families, navigate change, and plan for what comes next.

On Real Estate Connections, host Mary Foerster brings together trusted professionals, thoughtful conversations, and practical information to help you make more confident decisions about your home, finances, and future. Episodes explore home buying and selling, downsizing, aging in place, multigenerational living, real estate investing, renovations, caregiving, financial planning, and the personal transitions that often accompany a move.