Episode Details

Why Your Circle Gets Smaller When You Grow

From Tennessee, Frazier reflects on a Mortgage Mornings call with Anthony Casa about how making major changes—like quitting drinking, getting healthy, and focusing on growth—often leads to spending less time with old friends. Frazier shares that his own circle has naturally shrunk over time as his interests, responsibilities, and priorities changed, including distancing from a core industry group he spent time with from 2016 to 2020. He notes this shift can feel lonely or hurtful, but it isn’t about blame or becoming enemies—paths simply diverge. Frazier also discusses how envy or perceptions of bragging can surface when one person achieves more than others, further shrinking a circle. His key message is to accept this as normal and build a growth-oriented circle aligned with where you’re trying to go.