Episode Details

How can a pain kink feel pleasurable—and does enjoying it mean you’re a masochist? Learn the science, psychology, and erotic context that transforms pain into pleasure in BDSM.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

• (00:00) - Intro
• (01:59) - What is Pain?
• (07:27) - Why Do People Enjoy Pain in BDSM?
• (06:38) - The Illusion of Control
• (13:23) - How to Use Pain in Pleasure-Focused Play
• (14:48) - Choosing a Sensation
• (19:36) - Context of a Sensation
• (22:16) - Intensity and Duration of Sensation
• (30:18) - Receiving Sensation

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📖 Physical Pain as Pleasure: A Theoretical Perspective: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1605328
📖 Pleasure, pain activate same part of brain: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2002/01/pleasure-pain-activate-same-part-of-brain/