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Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.

Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.

He gets anxious every time his wife goes out on Saturdays.
 
She had an affair. He's 2 months into the program. He brushes off her "are you OK?" with "I'm fine." And he wants to know: do I bring it up now, wait, or just push through?
 
Cass's answer: first, stop calling it being triggered. You're insecure. Name it for what it is.
 
In Ep442 of the Morrow Marriage Q&A, Cass coaches Chris through one of the most common patterns men get stuck in after betrayal — and breaks down the exact tools to stop it.
 
🔑 What we cover:
• "You're not triggered — you're insecure." Why the word matters
• Integrity: why saying "I'm fine" when you're not is eroding your wife's trust right now
• The fact + feeling framework — and when to use it (and when not to)
• Control anxiety training: practice responding, not reacting
• Why it doesn't matter what she says — focus on her actions and your choices
• Layers prior and after: how to build connection before she leaves so insecurity doesn't spike
• The 7-minute anxiety exercise (3x a day) and why it's working
• Getting out of the triangle: Chris is 80% there — what's left

🔗 Explore more resources and our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/

Join Cass Morrow and Kathryn Morrow, the resilient couple behind Morrow Marriage. Together, we share our unscripted, raw, and against-the-grain journey of saving our marriage from the depths of Hell. We battle narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, and physical and sexual assault, offering lessons, actionable steps, and real-life examples to inspire couples worldwide.

Our journey is a testament to overcoming adversity, with challenges including Cass’ restraining order, seven separations, and two divorce lawyers. If we can survive and thrive in toxic, abusive, and sexless marriages, what’s your excuse?

Both books are searchable on Amazon and often purchased together:

Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man by Cass Morrow: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV 

Behind The White Picket Fence by Kathryn Morrow: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp

Discover our story, challenge societal norms, and help disrupt the 78% divorce rate. Subscribe, comment, and share if you find value as we strive to save marriages.

What to Watch Next:

Explore our journey through our podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4

Access courses, training, tools, and books at https://www.morrowmarriage.com/

Connect on Social Media:

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cassfostermorrow

Learn More About Kathryn:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KMorrowMarriage

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— Cass

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MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage

Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story. 

Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.