Episode Details

Inside the World of a Professional Orgy Organizer with Ali Bravo

Season 1 Episode 8 Published 1 month, 1 week ago

Description

Ali Bravo is a professional orgy organizer, a sex positive educator, a kinky leather artist, and a powerhouse force for destigmatizing kink, pleasure, and desire. When I met her in person a couple of weeks ago at Dixie De La Tour's Birthday Forgy (Friend Orgy), she was freshly resourced from her pre-party kink scene with one of her partners, a man who goes by the moniker Pleasure Wizard (and apparently REALLY lives up to that name!), and she was leading a group of 75 excited attendees through a consent and STI disclosure demo, capping it off with a proud announcement of her own positive herpes status. WHAT. A. BOSS.

In this episode:

What it actually takes to organize a 75-person orgy
Why Ali uses kinky “pre-care” scenes as a leadership tool before big events
Growing up fat, horny, and desperate for validation
The heartbreaking origins of Ali’s pleasure journey
Discovering orgasm, restraint, and kink later in life
Why so many women struggle to stay connected to their bodies during sex
How patriarchy disconnects us from pleasure
STI disclosure, herpes stigma, and why “all the hotties have herpes”
The hilariously absurd logistics of glory holes, Grope-a-Clown boxes, pussy pageants and cockstume contests
Why whimsy, play, and crafts belong at sex parties
Ali’s philosophy on polyamory, metamours, and “aurora partnerships”
The difference between “platonic erotic” and “erotic platonic” relationships
Why getting railed is, apparently, a public health necessity
Building chosen family through kink and sex-positive community
Why everything you desire might actually be on the other side of fear

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