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Inside the World of a Professional Orgy Organizer with Ali Bravo
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Ali Bravo is a professional orgy organizer, a sex positive educator, a kinky leather artist, and a powerhouse force for destigmatizing kink, pleasure, and desire. When I met her in person a couple of weeks ago at Dixie De La Tour's Birthday Forgy (Friend Orgy), she was freshly resourced from her pre-party kink scene with one of her partners, a man who goes by the moniker Pleasure Wizard (and apparently REALLY lives up to that name!), and she was leading a group of 75 excited attendees through a consent and STI disclosure demo, capping it off with a proud announcement of her own positive herpes status. WHAT. A. BOSS.
In this episode:
- What it actually takes to organize a 75-person orgy
- Why Ali uses kinky “pre-care” scenes as a leadership tool before big events
- Growing up fat, horny, and desperate for validation
- The heartbreaking origins of Ali’s pleasure journey
- Discovering orgasm, restraint, and kink later in life
- Why so many women struggle to stay connected to their bodies during sex
- How patriarchy disconnects us from pleasure
- STI disclosure, herpes stigma, and why “all the hotties have herpes”
- The hilariously absurd logistics of glory holes, Grope-a-Clown boxes, pussy pageants and cockstume contests
- Why whimsy, play, and crafts belong at sex parties
- Ali’s philosophy on polyamory, metamours, and “aurora partnerships”
- The difference between “platonic erotic” and “erotic platonic” relationships
- Why getting railed is, apparently, a public health necessity
- Building chosen family through kink and sex-positive community
- Why everything you desire might actually be on the other side of fear
READ ALI's COMPREHENSIVE STI DISCLOSURE ARTICLE:
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