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The Lone Martyr Trap | Ep 970
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"I was meant to burn my candle out so that other people could have what they needed." — Tony Martinetti
Join Niiamah (@niiamahashong) and Tony for a throwback live coaching session that goes to the root of why high achievers burn out. Tony spent 20 years building a successful career in biotech while quietly suffering inside, eventually hitting the bottom and climbing out. Now he coaches tech leaders through burnout and fulfillment. In this session, Niiamah uncovers the belief Tony had never named out loud: he thought he was put on earth to suffer so others could have what they wanted. That belief drove everything, including the depression, the burnout, and the relentless action that kept him ahead of the darkness. If you have ever given everything to others while quietly leaving nothing for yourself, this episode is for you.
Welcome to the Outlier's Edge Podcast, hosted by Niiamah Ashong, Founder of Outlier's Edge and Sherpa of the World of Difference. On this podcast, you'll join other high-performing unconventional leaders and entrepreneurs (aka Outliers) as they talk about leveraging what makes them different to make a difference in the world.
Timestamps:
00:03 — You don't need to try
07:24 — Meet Tony Martinetti
11:12 — Depression and the bottom rung
15:04 — What brings you fulfillment now
17:31 — Addicted to doing not being
22:14 — World-changing conversation agreement
27:36 — Why are you on this earth
33:55 — The CF children living to adults
40:59 — Freedom versus suffering revealed
45:28 — Three gifts of choosing suffering
55:59 — The darkness chasing you
01:01:26 — Make darkness an ally
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Episode originally published on: 8/2/2020