Episode Details

Doug discusses forgiveness. He also shares how to make the perfect apology and give the perfect compliment.

Listener questions and comments:

• Deedee - I like the idea of being specific with compliments. It shouldn’t be just in marriage but all your friendships. (38:56)
• Jeff - What you just went through and outlined for couples, could you also apply this to singles? Is the Christian life best lived in community? (43:01)

Resources:

Lovemaking: How to Talk about Sex with Your Spouse - A Guide for Everyday Catholics

https://www.amazon.com/Lovemaking-Talk-about-Your-Spouse/dp/164680371X

God’s plan for your marriage

https://godsplanforyourmarriagebook.com/

Holy Sex

https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Sex-Toe-Curling-Mind-Blowing-Infallible/dp/0824524713

Making a good apology

1. Acknowledge the offense
2. Express remorse
3. Make amends

Giving an effective compliment

1. Be specific
2. Name a particular virtue
3. Tell your spouse why it mattered
4. A good compliment should be timely
5. It’s all about them not about you