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Speaking Up for Your Trans Child | Guidance When Misgendering Happens
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Are you an overwhelmed mom of a gay, lesbian, transgender, or queer teen who's feeling lost trying to navigate the coming out process, and wants to let go of shame and embarrassment, as well as build a deeper connection of trust within yourself and your teen? Click here to learn how to work with me 1-1.
What happens in the moment when someone misgenders your child and you don’t speak up?
In this episode, Heather Hester explores one of the most common (and least talked about) experiences for parents of LGBTQ+ kids: the moment of hesitation. When a relative uses the wrong pronoun. When a teacher slips up. When you almost say something but don’t.
If you’ve ever felt your breath catch, your mind race, or your confidence disappear in those moments, you are not alone.
You’ll learn:
- Why silence in these moments lands louder than you think
- What your child may be reading in your hesitation
- How repeated inaction can quietly reshape trust and connection
- A powerful mindset shift that reframes advocacy as protection, not confrontation
- A simple, grounded way to begin speaking up with more clarity and calm
This episode will help you move from fear and uncertainty to a deeper sense of confidence in how you show up for your child.
Listen now and take one step closer to becoming the steady, safe advocate your child needs.
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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous, compassionate connection.
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