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Being "Full of Yourself" is Acutally Good: How High Achieving Women Break Free from Good Girl" Conditioning and Owning Your Power
Description
You've been told your whole life not to be full of yourself. But what if that's exactly what's been keeping you from the fulfillment you're chasing?
In this episode, I'm joined by energy specialist and soul contract guide Ebonie Allard for a conversation that is equal parts grounding and expansive. We're talking about what it really means to reclaim yourself, your full self, and why that reclamation is the actual path to fulfillment. If you're a high-achieving woman who's built the life but still feels something is off, this one is for you.
What You'll Learn:
- What "becoming full of yourself" actually means (and why it's not what you think)
- How suppressing your full expression creates inflammation and dis-ease in the body
- Why healing in community is more powerful than healing in isolation
- How to work with your shadows without making it a heavy, serious ordeal
- What soul contracts are and how they connect to your life's purpose and fulfillment
- How your Human Design open centers shape your identity, and how to stop letting them work against you
- The difference between performing your chart vs. softening into it
- Three grounding questions to check in with your power, presence, and purpose daily
Resources & Links:
- 🌐 Website: ebonieallard.com
- 📊 Get your chart: ebonieallard.com/get-chart
- 🎁 Free resources: ebonieallard.com/freebies
- 🎙️ Podcast: Becoming Full of Yourself on Substack
- 📱 Instagram: @eboniealchemy | @ebonieallard
- 🛍️ Shop (Art Prints, Kismet Code Deck): shop.ebonieallard.com
- 🔗 True Self Training: ebonieallard.com/true-self-training (use code HOPEFUL to get it for FREE!)
About Ebonie: Ebonie Allard is an energy specialist, master coach, and soul contract guide whose approach to self-discovery is as playful as it is profound. Blending Human Design, Gene Keys, Astrology, and Numerology with somatic practices and energetic alchemy, she helps culture makers decode their soul contracts, integrate their shadows, and reignite their sacred spark. She's the creator of The Value Filter, Embody Your Design, and The Kismet Codes — and her mission is simple: help you feel unapologetically fabulous about being full of yourself.
Connect with me on Instagram and tell me what you think!
For some more free resources to help you on your journey, click HERE to download my Guide to Seed Cycling and HERE for my guide on Minerals for Chakra Balancing and Longevity (a personal favorite because mineral balancing is my jam!)