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After betrayal, people expect anger.
But what if the anger doesn’t go outward… and instead turns inward?
In this episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, we explore a pattern many women experience but don’t fully understand - self-blame after being cheated on.
Why do you start questioning yourself?
Why do you replay everything in your head?
And why does it feel like your entire reality has shifted overnight?
Dimple is joined by mental health counselor Dolly Nawalkha, who breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface - psychologically and emotionally.
In this conversation, we cover:
• Why women turn anger inward instead of outward
• What happens to your nervous system after betrayal
• Cognitive dissonance and why your brain starts rationalizing the betrayal
• Why self-blame can feel safer than facing the truth
• The real reason it feels so hard to leave
• Intermittent reinforcement and why it keeps women stuck
If you’ve ever thought:
“Why am I blaming myself for something he did?”
or
“Why does this feel so confusing even when I know the truth?”
This episode will give you clarity.
Because what you’re feeling isn’t weakness. It’s how your mind and body are trying to protect you - Featuring Dolly Nawalkha, Mental Health Counselor (Hong Kong)
Stay connected with Dolly Nawalkha here!
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