Episode Details

Play is often overlooked in parenting, yet it can be one of the most effective ways to reduce power struggles, improve behaviour, and build a strong connection with your child. When you understand how children communicate, parenting becomes less exhausting and more cooperative.

In this episode, I am talking to Dr Kim Van Dusen, licensed family therapist, registered play therapist, and author of Parenting Through Play. We discuss why play is essential, how to use it in everyday moments, and simple ways to make parenting feel easier, even when you are tired or overwhelmed.

Dr Kim and I talk about:

• how play acts as your child’s primary language and improves connection
• why children resist when we communicate only through adult logic
• how to use short, simple play moments to reduce daily power struggles
• why moms resist play even when they know it works
• how play supports emotional regulation for both you and your child
• how to handle picky eating using playful, low-effort strategies
• why saying yes more often can improve behaviour and reduce conflict
• how to balance boundaries with connection without becoming permissive
• how playful parenting supports better transitions like bedtime and getting out the door
• how to support your child’s development using evidence-based techniques at home

Dr Kim Van Dusen is a mom of two, a licensed marriage and family therapist and a registered play therapist with nearly 20 years of clinical experience. She works with children and families, specializing in play-based approaches to improve behaviour, communication, and connection. She is also the founder of The Parentologist and author of Parenting Through Play: Creative Strategies for Building Better Behavior, Deeper Connection, and Positive Communication. 

Episode Links

• Follow Dr Kim on Instagram 
• Read her book Parenting Through Play 
• Check out The Parentologist website
• Listen to The Parentologist Podcast

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